Tuesday, November 11, 2008

a boy and his funny foot

When Henry was born, Sam brought him to me in recovery, showed me our beautiful son, and a few minutes later said "There's something about his foot.". Told in a way not to alarm me or to cause me anguish or fear but simply to tell me. I loved Sam for how he told me and because of that, Henry's funny foot was never a big deal to us. Henry's left foot was born a club foot, turned sharply inward toward the other and looking not quite the matching pair they should be! {You can see Henry's foot quite clearly in the bath photo in my previous post Henry in the Hospital.}

Yesterday we started the process of correcting his foot, traveling up to Saskatoon to get an assessment from an Orthopedic Surgeon and to start the series of castings. Really, this should have started shortly after birth but both our Family Doctor and our Pediatrician dropped the ball on the referral, each thinking the other would do it. Still we're told that it's no great detriment to be starting instead at 6 weeks old and I'm glad in a way as there was enough to deal with and adjust to in these first 6 weeks as it was.

Our surgeon will be using the very successful Ponseti Method which starts with a series of full leg casts to adjust and reposition the foot in order to grow correctly. This will most likely be around 6 weeks in duration and I'll be heading back to Saskatoon each week for Henry to be re-casted and his foot manipulated in small increments. He was so good when they put on his first cast yesterday, just lay there happily sucking his soother, feeling no pain or discomfort in what they were doing.

Later, after casting, Henry will have to wear boots and a brace, with his feet solidly attached to each other with a metal bar, for 3 months full time and then afterwards only during the night til he's 4 years old, as reoccurrence can happen in the early growing years. I had my little cry yesterday on the way home, thinking on what it will be like for him - and for me - to experience life while having to wear this brace. Wishing that we didn't have to deal with this and wishing for everything to be "normal". But then I am reminded how thankful I am. Thankful that only his one foot is affected. Thankful that he's never been bothered by it anyways, nor by the cast so far. And thankful, so thankful, that this is a rather minor and fixable problem, seeing children who truly have heartbreaking, lifelong deformities and challenges.

So Henry, just a few months of inconvenience and we'll fix your funny monkey foot. You'll be playing soccer with your Dad soon enough!

19 comments:

Unknown said...

Oh Cassie! Really and truly, you'll get through this fine. I have a good friend who's little boy had two club feet. He's just over a year now and learning to walk. I understand that he still has to wear his brace at night too, but during the day you'd never know. The brace and treatments have never really bothered him. He's an active little boy learning how to walk. Honesty, it'll cause more stress for you than it ever will for him...but then, what are mommies for? Right? :) Just let me know, and I'll put you in touch with her. I'm sure she'd be happy to correspond with you.

Jenn said...

Oops, I just realized I called you Cassie! I have a good friend at work that's also pregnant...and her name is Cassie. Sorry Cass!

Anonymous said...

It's so emotional being a mama isn't it? You should feel lucky that the problem is fixable and all, but I completely understand the good cry! My kids have both needed minor surgeries and been in the hospital numerous times since they were born and, even though it was all "minor", it doesn't feel that way at the time to the mama. I think of you often, Cass, and hope all is well. It is terrible that life is so darn busy, but I really will get over to see you one of these days. Sharla

Kathy said...

Cass,
I totally understand the 'sit down and have a good cry' thing. Sometimes life throws these curveballs at us - but I know you are doing the right thing. And like you said one day he'll be kickin' around the soccer ball with Dad and you'll never even know he went through this trial.
You are doing a fantastic job as Mom Cass! And sweet little Henry looks so adorable with the cast that is almost as big as he! =)

The Essons said...

Oh Cass -I know it's going to be tough, but you're doing great! What a good boy you have! Hang in there!!!

Kim said...

Hi Cass,
Thanks for sharing your thoughts around this trying time. I think of you guys often (this keeps me on track with trying to find something to send - you may get something new for Henry by the time Christmas comes around!) and on that note, I will think extra positive thoughts that you will get through this. And a good cry is a really good thing! I have them often, haha. Take care, Kim

Anonymous said...

Hey Cass,
What a good boy you have for getting on his cast! And of course you had a cry....this mother stuff is all-consuming. I sometimes cry when Elsie gets an "owee"...this makes us good Mommies.
You are doing great and I hope we get to meet the little fella soon.
Thinking of you lots through my nauseas-first-trimester-fog (I feel sea-sick all day right now!)
Lots of love,
Chey.

Anonymous said...

Aw, kisses for Henry, and hugs for mumma!

Bethany

Williams' Family said...

Hey Cass,
(I found your blog through Angie's!)

I read your blog with tears in my eyes! I know all the emotions you are going through. Our now almost 2 yr old Rece was not crawling yet at almost 16 months. While kids around him were walking, he would just sit, or pull himself around not using his legs. At almost 18 months he was diagnosed with a Carnitine deficiency, which has giving him low muscle tone in his lower body. Now at 2 he is just walking. I remember those first days after his diagnosis. I was feeling sorry for him and wondering how it was going to affect him later in life. I cried so many tears! BUT.....kids are so tough, and our God is SOOO big! Rece is such an easy going kid, and there is just something special about him. Sometimes I think when kids struggle in one area, they have a big strength in another area! You are doing what is best for sweet little Henry, and he will be just fine! Yes, there may be some struggles in the next few year....we have had a few with Rece, but God will give you the grace to work through them. I will be praying that Henry will do well with his cast!

katrina lauren said...

Your Henry is just the sweetest little guy! I'm glad that everything went well in Saskatoon, and that Henry wasn't too bothered by it all...what a trooper you have!

Anonymous said...

Hey Cass,
The initial thought of what you and Henry will go through can be overwhelming, but you will see that the time goes by quickly and it will be a joy to see his improvement.
It is not the same, I know, but Jonah is quite "pigeon toed" on his left foot. It has gotten much more noticable as he gets older. But you know, he doesn't even notice or let it affect him.
Be strong, Mama!!

Amy H said...

It sounds like you are a great momma, Cass! Keep it up! I'm glad that you can have a grateful attitude even in the hard times. God can use this time to help you rely on Him more deeply and appreciate the little things in life more acutely.

LISA said...

Dear Cassie...how hard to see your child go through this...I think it's hardest on us parents..but to them it will be normal, right? Kristi Yamaguchi was born with two club feet...you would never know. So glad to hear how thankful you are too...
Thanks for sharing this with us! Hugs and hugs and hugs

Donna said...

oh a good cry indeed, very important to do that...how amazing what doctors can do and what they did years ago for club feet. You and Sam are great parents that is all sweet Henry needs.

Lo said...

wow, I didn't even think anything of the picture of him in the bath, poor kiddo, but a brave one for not complaining during the casting! cry all you want, cass! there's SO many emotions being a mommy (in addition to still being hormonal at first and sleep deprived!) we're thinking of you guys!!

Lo said...

i forgot to add, and poor you guys!!! (i hated when caleb was crying endlessly and the grandmas would be all, "oh, poor baby" and we'd be like, "poor baby? what about poor us?!" ;)

Anonymous said...

THanks for telling us about this Cass. THat must have been hard at first to hear about. Nice to hear your "thankfullnesses" too:) A good reminder for me to do as well when things are "just right":) He is soooo cute! and i would not say that if it were not true...there are some pretty ugly babies out there ;-)

KAri

Anonymous said...

opps, I meant when things are NOT "just right" onthe above comment :)
Kari

Jason, Angie and Brady said...

Love your honesty, thanks for sharing this. And isn't little Henry just adorable in his cute cast. (What a big boy to behave himself so well during the appointment!)

We will certainly uphold you both and the little man in our prayers.

Are those ROLLS forming on those legs and arms? SO SWEET, I wanna squeeze him.